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Joy that comes from the inside

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9 years in Tibetan Buddhist Hermitage Theory U Cultivating Emotional Balance Trainee

Inner Landscape

"The faculty of voluntarily bringing back a wandering attention, over and over again, is the very root of judgment, character, and will. No one is composed if he have it not. An education which should improve this faculty would be the education par excellence." — William James

The cultivation starts with conation — the capacity to direct the mind with intention toward what matters. We follow this with developing sustained voluntary attention, which leads to metacognition: the ability to observe our own mind, its patterns, its habits. This progression naturally brings about emotional balance. Wellbeing that comes from the inside.

This work is grounded in the Cultivating Emotional Balance (CEB) programme, developed by Paul Ekman and B. Alan Wallace — a framework that integrates emotion science with contemplative practice. I am currently training to become a certified CEB teacher.

What I Offer

Each offering is available as a workshop, a programme, or woven into a mountain experience. All can be tailored for individuals, teams, and organisations.

De-escalation

De-escalation in the Group or Workplace

When emotions run high, clear thinking goes first. We explore how to read the emotional timeline, interrupt escalating patterns before they take hold, and restore the conditions for dialogue. Drawing on Paul Ekman's emotion research and field-tested in alpine teams under real pressure.

Leadership

How to Build Trust

Trust is built in the moments before the words. In consistency, in attention, in the willingness to be affected by others. We examine the foundations of trust and how to cultivate them deliberately, whether on a rope team or in a management meeting.

Resilience

Cultivating Safe Spots

In the mountains, a safe spot is where you stop to assess, to take in any new information and decide to continue or to turn back. Inside, it is the same — a felt sense of groundedness from which clear thinking remains possible. We develop inner anchors that stay accessible even in turbulent conditions, so that equanimity is not a fair-weather quality.

Awareness

Shedding Light on Blind Spots

Our most consequential mistakes rarely feel like mistakes in the moment. We practise metacognition — the art of stepping back, stepping out of our own perspective to observe our patterns, assumptions, and reactions. Before they drive decisions we cannot take back. A practice of structured self-inquiry and honest reflection.

Focus

Cultivating Sustained Voluntary Attention

William James called it the very root of judgment and will. The capacity to bring a wandering mind back — once, and then again — is trainable. We work with evidence-based practices drawn from contemplative tradition and emotion science, tailored to the realities of a full and distracted life.

Mountain meditation retreat in the Alps

Mountain Retreat

Alps · small group · 5 days

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One-on-one coaching session

One-on-One Sessions

Remote or in person

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Combined mountain and mind experience

Mountains & Mind

A trip that works both

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High camp in the Himalayas
Via ferrata climbing
Two guides on a summit
Team on a high summit
Rock climbing on a big wall
Alpine ridge at sunrise

Your inner landscape, your pace.

There is no single entry point. Some people arrive curious. Some arrive exhausted. Some have been sitting for twenty years and want to go deeper. Bring your question — wherever you are is the right starting point. We will find the right form together.

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